The Remedy Podcast

Purpose Over Partnership

Hey guys, and welcome back to the podcast. I’m your girl Chelly Nichole and im here today with my good sis Marshe - and today we’re stepping into a conversation that might challenge you, heal you, and maybe even step on a few toes…but this is all in love. We’re talking about finding purpose before partnership. Because so many of us were taught how to be a wife, a girlfriend, a ride-or-die but not how to be whole. Some of us are single, trying to figure out who we are without a relationship title. Some of us are in relationships still bleeding from past wounds. And some of us love God deeply but still wrestle with the tension between waiting on His timing and wanting companionship now. We were never meant to use relationships to give us identity, direction, or validation. That’s a heavy assignment to put on another human. Marshe and I want to ask the hard questions today: Are we pursuing love - or are we escaping loneliness? Are we building purpose - or just making room for someone else’s? The Bible tells us in Proverbs 19:21 “Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails..” This isn’t about being anti-love, anti-marriage, or anti-men. This is about alignment. Because when you know who you are and whose you are, you stop auditioning for relationships that were never meant to cast you. So sis, wherever you are, single, healing, dating, praying, or waiting - this conversation is for you. Let’s get into it . Make sure to like, comment and share! 

Shaming Your Partner in The Public: When Validation Turns Into Exposure

“Some conversations don’t start because of drama — they start because of discomfort.”
Today we’re talking about shaming your partner in public.Not cheating. Not abuse.But something quieter… and just as damaging.
We live in an era where memes replace conversations, captions replace accountability, and social media becomes the third person in the relationship. And somehow, we’ve normalized airing dissatisfaction online under the guise of honesty.
Last year, the internet watched a moment involving Ayesha and Steph Curry — and whether you agreed or disagreed, it sparked an uncomfortable truth: feelings aren’t the problem. The platform is.
Wanting validation doesn’t make you weak.Feeling like you lost parts of yourself supporting your partner doesn’t make you ungrateful.But processing that pain publicly — before privately — can turn love into spectacle.
Because when you hint that there’s a problem, the world doesn’t help you fix it.They pick sides.They rewrite narratives.And they plant seeds that don’t belong in your relationship.
This episode isn’t about dragging anyone.It’s about boundaries.It’s about respect.It’s about asking ourselves a hard question:
Am I sharing to heal… or to be seen?
Let’s talk about when validation turns into exposure — and how to protect your relationship in a world that profits from your vulnerability.

Being With The Same Person for 14 years: When Love, Loyalty and Longevity Collide

Today’s episode is a conversation many of us didn’t expect to have—but one we need to. When a relationship that spans over a decade comes to an end, it doesn’t just affect the people involved. It affects the community watching, learning, and believing in love alongside them. Desmond and Kristy were together for 14 years and married for 10. Their recent separation and divorce have sparked a lot of opinions, emotions, and assumptions online. But this episode isn’t about gossip or choosing sides. It’s about what long-term love really costs. What happens when people grow, change, and no longer align? And how do we process the ending of something we thought was meant to last forever? Let’s talk about longevity, heartbreak, accountability, and the truth about being with the same person for most of your adult life. Make sure to like, comment and share! 

The Blatant Disrespect: Black Women Last In Line

There’s a kind of exhaustion that comes from always being strong, but rarely being protected. From always being capable, but constantly being questioned. From being the backbone of everything, yet treated like an afterthought. Today’s conversation isn’t about anger—it’s about honesty. It’s about the blatant disrespect Black women experience in workplaces, in relationships, in society, and sometimes even within our own communities. It’s about what it feels like to constantly be last in line for grace, empathy, softness, and understanding. And before anyone gets uncomfortable—this is not about blame. It’s about naming what has been normalized for far too long. Because silence hasn’t saved us. Shrinking hasn’t protected us. Over performing hasn’t earned us respect. So today, we’re telling the truth. Not to tear anyone down—but to finally lift Black women up. Make sure to follow, like and share!!

GOODBYE 2025!!

Wheww!! What a year! It has been one for the books and it is safe to say, we all hope there will be no more years like this one. But to look on the bright side, this year taught us all something. Whether it's to walk by faith, lean on God, focus on your purpose, grow and heal, remove and replace, happy endings or sad ones, we all made it to the last Monday of the year. And that is a blessing in its own. I wish everyone a happy new year. A healthy new year. A prosperous new year. And cheers to everything better for the new year!!! Thanks for listening!!! 

Trust on Life Support: Can it Be Rebuild?

Welcome back to the podcast!! Today’s conversation is not easy—but it’s necessary.This episode is for the woman who stayed after betrayal… and for the woman who’s still deciding. It’s for the one who loves deeply, questions quietly, and carries a story she doesn’t always feel safe sharing.When cheating happens, trust doesn’t just break—it flatlines. And yet, some of us choose to stay, not because we’re weak, not because we don’t know our worth, but because the situation is layered, emotional, and deeply human. Today, we’re talking about what it really means when trust is on life support.The grief. The hope. The work.The truth behind staying—and what it actually requires to rebuild something that was once broken.This isn’t about convincing you to stay or telling you to leave. It’s about honesty, self-awareness, and learning how to choose yourself—no matter what decision you make. Tune in!!! Like. Comment. Share. 

The Wait Isn't Punishment: It's Preparation

Welcome back to The Remedy Podcast—the space where we talk about healing, faith, womanhood, and becoming who God is calling us to be without rushing the process.Today’s episode is titled “The Wait Is Not Punishment; It’s Preparation.” And if you’re listening to this feeling stuck, overlooked, confused, overwhelmed, or quietly asking God, “Did I miss something?”—this episode is for you. This conversation was inspired by two sermons I heard today—one from The Lighthouse Church with Pastor Kieon, titled “Tied to the Timeline,” and the other from 2819 Church, titled “You Did It Anyway.” Together, they spoke directly to the tension many of us are living in: believing God has a plan for us, yet still struggling with waiting for it to unfold. So let’s get into it. Make sure you like, comment and share! Tune into Instagram and TikTok for the latest clips and polls to participate in.

Her 30 Journey: Summing Up The 30

As we close part 1 of The Her 30 Journey, I want you to hear me clearly: you are not broken. You are not late. You are not wrong for your feelings, You are worth the right love and respect. It is okay to shift in you career. You are still young. You are making smarter decisions that will impact your life now then if you do them later. You are evolving. You are not who you were last year. You are allowed to make mistakes but take responsibility for them. And everything that feels uncertain right now is simply evidence that you’re outgrowing what no longer fits. Part 2 is all about rebuilding you — your identity, your mindset, your finances, your emotional safety, your voice. You’re making it through the hard part if you haven’t gotten there yet. You got this!
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Her 30 Journey: Clocks, Careers and Choices

In this episode of The Remedy Podcast, we’re getting real about the pressure of timelines — the invisible clock that tells you when you should have it all together, the career expectations that keep you grinding without peace, and the choices that can change everything.This one’s for the woman questioning her timing, doubting her next step, or silently comparing her journey to someone else’s. You are not behind. You are becoming. 🌱
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Her 30 Journey: Faith, Fear and Our Future

Faith whispers “yes.” Fear whispers “no.” And the future stands quietly in the middle, leaving us wondering what’s truly possible. For the past five years, my faith has been tested in ways I never expected. Since COVID, I’ve wrestled with the question — did God plan all of this, or is it simply the work of humanity? And when I tell you…the voices were LOUD — I mean loud. Life has shown me that putting complete trust in people will always leave room for disappointment. Fear is a fight we all face internally, even when we do our best to hide it from the world. Fear of rejection. Fear to fail. Fear to start over. Fear of the unknown. All of it can find its way to cripple you...if you let it.  In this episode, we’re diving deep into the tug-of-war between faith, fear, and reality — and how to keep believing when the future feels uncertain. Make sure to like, comment and share.