The Remedy Podcast

What's going on everyone!! Today we're talking about something that might make a few people uncomfortable, but you know that's where some of the best conversations happen.
I want to talk about this idea that our thinking around marriage and children might be completely backwards.
Somehow we've become a society where people will have a baby together after a few months of dating, but the idea of marriage feels too serious.
People say things like:
"I don't know if I'm ready to get married."
But they'll have a child with someone.
And I just want to ask the question:
How did we get here?
Because from where I'm sitting, having a child with someone is one of the biggest commitments you can make.
Not because children are a burden—they're a blessing.
But because a child connects you to another person for the rest of your life.
Marriage can end.
Parenting doesn't.
Let's talk about it.
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Welcome back to the podcast and the continuation of THE HER 30 JOURNEY SERIESSSS!!! 
The first episode of part 2. Today we're talking about something that has shaped the lives of so many black women: the idea of being the "strong black woman." We've been told that strength means holding everything together. Being  the fixer, the caregiver, everyone depends on, and the one who keeps pushing no matter how exhausted she is. And while strength is beautiful, what happens when strength becomes a prison? Tune in the episode and share your thoughts.
Ask yourself these questions..
What am I carrying that I can put down? 
Have I confused survival with success? 
What does strength mean to me? 

Hey y’all, welcome back to the podcast. I’m your host, Michele, and today’s episode is called “Trusting God Through the Challenges.” Join me and my sis Marshe in on this topic. And honestly…this conversation is for anybody who feels tired, confused, discouraged, stuck, or just uncertain about where life is going right now. Because let’s be real — adulthood, motherhood, relationships, careers, finances, purpose…all of it can feel heavy sometimes. And social media makes it seem like everybody else has life figured out while you’re still praying for clarity. So today we just wanted to have a real conversation. No pretending. No “super spiritual” masks. Just honesty about trusting God while still battling fear, disappointment, confusion, and self-doubt. Remember to like, comment and share! 

Welcome back!! Today I want to talk about something that almost nobody likes talking about because it requires us to look in the mirror.
Discipline.
Accountability.
Two words we love to preach but hate to practice. And if we’re being honest, most of us don’t really have a motivation problem. We have a comfort problem. We live in a time where everything is instant.
Instant food.
Instant dating.
Instant shopping.
Instant entertainment.
Instant validation.
And when life starts training us to expect quick rewards, patience starts to feel like punishment. But growth has never worked like that. So today, I want this to be raw. Honest. No fake inspirational fluff. Just a real conversation about why so many of us struggle with discipline, why accountability feels so uncomfortable, and what we can actually do to become better. Make sure you subscribe, like and share. 
Remedy Homework!!! Yes, we are all doing it too. 
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Let’s talk about it…
Are we as women accidentally disqualifying good men… because of a piece of paper? I know that might've triggered somebody but, stay with me. Because in today’s dating world, a man can be hardworking, emotionally available, consistent… and still get passed over because he doesn’t have a degree. But at the same time… some of y’all dated men WITH degrees who couldn’t communicate, couldn’t commit, and definitely couldn’t lead. So what are we really choosing—security, status… or alignment? Let's get into it. Make sure you guys comment, like and share! 
I'd like to hear from you. And be honest...
Would you date a man without a degree if he was financially stable and treated you right? 
Is education a MUST for you? Why or why not?
Be honest, have you passed up on a good man because he didn't "look right" on paper? 

Have you ever been called “too much”… when you were really just hurting?
In this episode, we’re having a real conversation about trauma—the kind we don’t always talk about—and how it shows up in our daily lives. Whether it’s always being the strong one, avoiding your feelings, or trying to keep the peace at your own expense, these are the responses many of us learned just to survive.
But survival isn’t the end goal, healing is. And this episode is your reminder that you’re allowed to do that out loud.
Tune in and like, comment and share!! 

Breakups are never easy—but what happens when you can’t completely walk away?
In this episode of The Remedy Podcast, we’re talking about the reality many people face after a breakup: coexisting with someone you once loved. Whether you share a home, children, a friend group, or unfinished emotional ties, learning how to move forward while still connected can be incredibly challenging.
We dive into:
• How to create healthy boundaries after a breakup• The emotional challenges of living with an ex• The differences between how men and women handle breakups• How to heal when the person who hurt you is still around• Signs that coexistence is no longer healthy
Sometimes closure doesn’t come from distance—it comes from growth, boundaries, and choosing your peace.
Plus, don’t forget the Remedy Homework, where we challenge listeners to reflect on their own emotional boundaries and healing journey.
If you’ve ever struggled with letting go while still being connected, this conversation is for you.

Have you ever looked at your life and quietly thought… this can’t be it?
You have the job. The responsibilities. The routine.From the outside, it looks stable. Maybe even successful.But inside? You feel restless. Unfulfilled. Misaligned.
In this episode, we’re talking to the men and women who are ready for more — more purpose, more alignment, more obedience to what God is calling them to become.
This isn’t about impulsively quitting your job.This is about recognizing when comfort has replaced calling.When fear sounds logical.When you’ve outgrown the version of yourself you built out of survival.
We’ll break down:
How to recognize when you’re unfulfilled vs. just tired
The signs God may be shifting you into a new season
Why fear disguises itself as responsibility
How to take practical steps toward clarity without blowing up your life
If you’ve been feeling stuck, distracted, or quietly dissatisfied, this episode is your permission slip to stop ignoring the nudge. Your frustration might not be failure.It might be divine redirection. Press play — and let’s talk about purpose.

Hey guys! Welcome back to the podcast! It's your girl, Chelly Nichole, and today we're stepping into a conversation that might ruffle some feathers but WHOOPTY DOO! We're talking about this idea of being a girlfriend or boyfriend before becoming a husband or wife. Is it preparation..or is it just practice for someone else? Are we building with intention or just passing time? Are we learning each other or losing ourselves? And at what point do dating roles turn into destiny or distraction? Let's be real. So many of us are giving wife benefits on girlfriend status and husband energy without husband commitment. So today we're asking: Is dating a stepping stone...or a stumbling block? Let's talk about and make sure you like, comment an share this episode. 

Hey guys, and welcome back to the podcast. I’m your girl Chelly Nichole and im here today with my good sis Marshe - and today we’re stepping into a conversation that might challenge you, heal you, and maybe even step on a few toes…but this is all in love. We’re talking about finding purpose before partnership. Because so many of us were taught how to be a wife, a girlfriend, a ride-or-die but not how to be whole. Some of us are single, trying to figure out who we are without a relationship title. Some of us are in relationships still bleeding from past wounds. And some of us love God deeply but still wrestle with the tension between waiting on His timing and wanting companionship now. We were never meant to use relationships to give us identity, direction, or validation. That’s a heavy assignment to put on another human. Marshe and I want to ask the hard questions today: Are we pursuing love - or are we escaping loneliness? Are we building purpose - or just making room for someone else’s? The Bible tells us in Proverbs 19:21 “Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails..” This isn’t about being anti-love, anti-marriage, or anti-men. This is about alignment. Because when you know who you are and whose you are, you stop auditioning for relationships that were never meant to cast you. So sis, wherever you are, single, healing, dating, praying, or waiting - this conversation is for you. Let’s get into it . Make sure to like, comment and share!